When life gives you lemons... Take them and cherish them until they rot.
No matter how random or pointless lemons are, looks at them as something precious and a meaning to life. Once they rot, it doesn't mean they are gone forever and that you will never have anything else to look for. Go out and find another.
Throughout our whole life, there will be many lemons, but you cannot find them if all you do is lock yourself up in your room and say you've destroyed your whole life.
We all feel lonely, we all feel like a failure, we can always feel like we could just give up on life. But I've been told once, "you only have one life". I've said this alot, and I will say it again, no matter how much you look at it, your life is a very long time, everyone says life is short and I do not understand why.
My opinion is that everyone spend their whole life worrying about everything that can go wrong, and then one day they realise, "wow I've wasted my whole life". The negative thoughts in our hearts and minds is what's making us feel life is short, instead of hating ourself, saying we're "forever alone
" , why not try and enjoy our life.
Many people can reject us, sometimes even everyone around us, but how can you be certain that everyone
will reject you? I think when people say everyone, they are refering to people in their home, school or town, but if you look down from a simple aeroplane window, not just for the scenary, but just think, there are so many people living in all those little houses, and when you look down at your city or town, you can see there are so many people you could encounter in such a small place. Even if you can't find anyone there, then look again.
There are so many places to discover and unlock, and there are many entrances, so if you're in doubt and alone, there are so many people in this world, there will always be one person who will stay by you and always look out for you.
I understand that school and home life is everyone's biggest problem, we can feel that they are controlling our lives and eatting us whole. Once you get out, you are free. If it really is making you break down, ask for help
. Teachers, classmates, parents, anyone. Just like what I said before about there being so many people, even if your school has only 300 students or even up 1000 students, you can't expected everyone there will rejected you, unless you DO know EVERYONE well enough to know they don't care. Friends aren't just in our same classes or form group, they can be in different schools, or even just different classes, if you need help, ask someone dammit. If you need help with homework or study, why not ask someone to study with them? If you're like me and can't see anyone outside of school, ask someone online.
Parents can also be a problem. You may think that all they care about is school work, school work, school work, They may have even told you that they don't care about anything else. Not sure if this will help, but fight back, you need to show them how you feel about all this, no matter how much trouble you even get into, you need to show them what your feelings are. Since I know that a lot of you are teenagers and find it harder to communicate with adults, if they truely cared about you, they will understand. Personally, I don't have too much of a good relationship with my parents, I hardly talk to my dad about my problems, and my mum doesn't know much about me, but since they are adults, they will have been through the stage of being a teenager, it may be different from how you are feeling now, but if you try hard enough, I'm sure they will understand.
The problem with words, are that you lack emotion when typing, if you want to get your thoughts and feelings out, I recommend using your voice. Facial expressions and tone of voice and prove how you feel and how passionate you feel about your opinion.
One simple mistake? My whole life is over.
We all make mistakes, it's nothing new. For example, we failed at an exam, we was late for a meeting, we failed the whole year, I know it can be very stressful and painful, it all takes time to adapt. What I want you to do, look back throughout you're whole life, and looks at how many mistakes you have done, trust me, you'll realise you have made more than you can count.
My way of dealing with mistakes, is to forget everything about yesterday. Memories and the past are the same thing to me. The past is what has gone and we no longer remember them, memories are times we love the most, but yet again they have already past. No matter how much we keep those memories close to us, they will one day fade away into the past, they will become more distant. Like an ex-lover, if you still love those memories you try to keep them closer to you, but as time flies by, those memories move further and further into the past, and soon they will be so far we cannot even remember them. Or our lovely little childhood, if we have a lovely carefree childhood, we long for those times to come back. I feel that is the cause of depression, we long for the past to come back, but realising they will never come back, we lock ourselves in depression until we can see the light again. I forget everything about the past, and move on into the future. Therefore, I do not long for the past life, and look forward to better tomorrow. Memories will remain memories, we can forget them and pretend they are no longer there, or we can form new memories with the ones we love the most. We just need to tell ourselves, "how can I make tomorrow a better day?"
"Are you okay?" "yeah, I'm fine"
Fake smiles can deceive even the most closest of friends, You pretend your troubles are not there, but they still remain, even for someone who hates lying, fakes smiles make you lie about your true feelings. They are like a mask that hide away the true you. I feel, the mask only appears after a life change, for example, everyone seems to reject you because you are different, you hide yourself under the mask and lie that you are fine and you are the same, but the feeling still hurts you. The way I deal with this is the same why I deal with memories, I forget them. The more you lie, the more the mask stays on, in order to get rid out it, you'll need to stand up to everything bad in your life, like deal with your parents, stand up and show what you truely feel.
We all have bad days and break downs, but we shouldn't let that get you down, life is a long time, there are still many more things that can happen. So whatever you do... Don't give up
I'm always here if you want a talk, anyone is welcome to talk or rant to me about their problems, and I'll try my best to help you.
This picture was a small doodle I did for
who's going through hard times. I'm sure everyone has many hard times too and have trouble dealing with it. So I'm sharing my wisdom with everyone online. I am not trained to give advice, this was all written from my personal encounters and exprience, and just my own common sense (which isn't common since it's "my own") Life gives you rocks and lemons
But do not give up
Because I'm still here
Praying for your brighter tomorrow